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Don’t Fear Using Covert Hypnosis

One of the great things about the internet is the way it has provided people with nearly instant access to almost any information imaginable. I believe it is partly thanks to the internet that hypnosis, and particularly covert hypnosis have become such hot topics for discussion. Around the world millions of people are learning more about covert hypnosis everyday. Despite this though there are still very few people who actually use covert hypnosis in their regular life.

Before I explain why people fear using covert hypnosis perhaps first I should clarify what it actually is. Covert hypnosis is a set of skills and techniques that allow an individual to become more persuasive, be seen as a leader and get what they want out of life. It’s easy to understand why so many people set about learning covert hypnosis, but what is it that holds them back from using it?

Well it’s not just one thing. There are actually three reasons why a student of covert hypnosis may never once use the skills they have spent their time learning.

1. The fear of being “caught”.
This is a fear many covert hypnosis students have. They think they’ll start using covert hypnosis out in public and be caught immediately. There really is nothing to worry about though. While many people may have a grasp of covert hypnosis the entire point of the skill is that it is subtle, so no-one will spot you and call you out. Even if they did realise you were using covert hypnosis, what are they going to do? They can’t admonish you as simply by stating you are using covert hypnosis shows that they have advance knowledge of the subject and use it also. Their cover is then blown. The worst thing that can possibly happen is you’ll have a little secret together.

2. Perfectionism. This is closely linked in with the first point. People try and become perfect practitioners of covert hypnosis before trying it in the field. This will never work though because it is impossible to become “perfect” at anything. Also to become as close to perfect as you possibly can get at covert hypnosis you need real life experience. Things don’t always go smoothly in the real world and you need that sort of experience to learn how to think on your feet quickly.

3. An inferiority complex. Some people simply don’t believe they are worthy of having a superior grasp over the minds’ of others. However think about this from the other way around. Should you have to deal with people not really respecting you or listening to what you have to say? Of course not. By learning covert hypnosis you are showing the drive to make something of yourself, this alone shows that you are more than worthy of having people follow your words.

I hope that these simple points will help you to overcome any fears of using covert hypnosis that you may have. The only way you’ll ever get a return on the time (and money) you have spent learning covert hypnosis is to use it. Start simply with some of the more basic techniques such as embedded commands and work your way up. You will soon find your confidence and the words will flow comfortably from your mouth with little to no conscious effort.

Doug Slater.

Doug Slater

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Seduce Women With Your Words

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. With women it’s through their ears. With a carefully selected choice of words you can successfully seduce any woman you want, no matter how you look or what you earn.

Embedded Commands

An embedded command is an NLP technique that is used to persuade somebody to feel a certain way. As you read that sentence I’m sure you already realised how useful that could be while trying to seduce a woman.

The idea is that you slip certain commands into your dialogue whilst talking to the woman you are interested in. Done right this is so smooth and fluid that she will never notice, however she will subconscious pick up on these embedded commands and they will take the desired effect. It’s simply the power of suggestion.

For example lets say you are talking to a woman about pets, you could say something like, “When I was a kid we got a pet (whatever animal you want) and she could be very affectionate towards me”. It is important to be covert about these commands, don’t force one if it doesn’t fit.

Tone of voice is key here. A command is spoken with a downward inflection, this shows conviction. It also registers on a deep level whereas whilst you are talking to the woman she won’t consciously notice this slight change of inflection.

Have Interesting Anecdotes Ready

Even if you’ve led a relatively mundane life you probably have a couple of interesting stories tucked away somewhere. If not make them up. Anecdotes provide you with an excellent opportunity to slip in embedded commands. If you are truly committed to becoming a master of seduction then you might even consider writing out a small script (including embedded commands) for yourself containing an interested anecdote. Keep it short and end it on a high point.

Listen and Ask Questions

A conversation is a two way thing. Asking questions to a woman about her life will give you further topics of conversation to pursue. Follow up questions will also show that you are both listening and interested in what she has to say.

If, at some point, the woman asks you if what she did in a certain situation was the best thing to do always say that she chose the right option. This provides her with an ego boost plus it affirms her decision making skills. If she is asking your opinion about something she is almost certainly considering you as a partner, affirming her decision making skills will make her feel like she is making the right choice.

Practice

Seduction techniques take practice to perfect. There are a few ways you can practice before taking your skills out into a “live environment”. One is to talk to yourself in the mirror. Practice your delivery and mannerisms until they look completely natural, this will also boost your confidence levels. Another similar method is to speak into a dictaphone and then listen back to it. Repeat this over and over, ironing out mistakes and missteps as you go.

The real practice though can be found in bars, libraries, shops and wherever else you see a woman you are attracted to. For some men things click into place instantly once they have their game down. For others it might take a few run-throughs to get it right.

Whatever happens stick with it and evolve your plan. You will find certain stories and commands have higher success rates than other. Keep these and rework the others until your technique is so good that you can seduce any woman.

If you want to learn how to master using embedded commands for seduction purposes then you can do so at NLP Hypnosis Secrets.

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Why Do You Suffer From Agoraphobia

Author : Roseanna Leaton

Any phobia has the ability to make life uncomfortable to a certain extent Agoraphobia is however probably the most wide reaching in its negative impact upon your quality of life To be afraid of open spaces, or to be fearful of even stepping out of your own back door prevents you from doing so very many things which the rest of humanity take for granted

Just to go and buy a pint of milk or a daily newspaper may all too easily become impossible to contemplate The thing with agoraphobia is that it most often starts off as a vague feeling of unease in certain circumstances but this gradually grows into something far more debilitating Its force is like a snowball gathering snow and speed as it rolls down a hillside Eventually you can feel like you are caught up in an avalanche of jittery emotions; it is therefore important to take action and do something about it as soon as possible

The question most often posed is “what action?” If you do manage to get out to see your doctor you are likely to be treated for either anxiety or depression Not everyone wants to take drugs however and also they do not always work Agoraphobia makes you feel totally out of control and anything which you can do to help regain a feeling of stability and control will help enormously; and this is relevant no matter whether you are taking tablets or not

Information helps Knowing that other people are in the same boat helps you to feel that “it’s not just you” Trying to think back to the roots of your anxiety will help you identify a potential phobia cure If you can work out what caused your agoraphobia, then you have more chance of finding a way in which to treat your phobia

Another way of working to regain your self control, and this is I am sure the most powerfully effective, is to learn to think in a slightly different way When you have a phobia you tend to dwell upon your fear and imagine what might happen, visualizing all sorts of dreadful scenarios vividly in your mind These become a self-fulfilling prophesy; it is a known fact that whatever you vividly imagine you create

You can turn your ability to visualize to your very great advantage by choosing what you would like to see You can choose to imagine a good outcome, and see yourself as you want to be This may seem far too simple a solution; but please do not underestimate it as it is very effective You will probably need to first learn how to eradicate negative images from your mind, just as you would need to wipe a blackboard clean of what is written upon it before writing now information on it

The hypnosis phobia cure has been shown to be a very powerful way in which you can learn to think in a different way and take control of your life once more You can use a cure phobia hypnosis mp3 as a way in which to take control for yourself

Roseanna Leaton, specialist in phobia hypnotherapy to help overcome fears

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With a degree in psychology and qualifications in hypnotherapy, NLP and sports psychology, Roseanna Leaton is one of the leading practitioners of self-improvement. Grab a free hypnosis mp3 from http://www.RoseannaLeaton.com and peruse her extensive library of phobia hypnosis cure mp3s and find your own agoraphobia cure.

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