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Although embedded commands come from the world of NLP, they have become much more well known thanks to the success of seduction gurus such as Neill Strauss. The idea behind embedded commands is that a person covertly slips certain commands into their speech whilst talking to the person they wish to persuade. I’m sure you can imagine how this can be used in the field of seduction.

I will give you a list of seductive embedded commands that you can use to attract either women or men, but first I’d like to set an example and explain to you exactly how it works. I have bolded the embedded command to make it extra obvious for beginners to such seduction techniques.

“I’ve been cutting weight recently but I went shopping and I saw this delicious looking cake, you know, sometimes you just have to give in to temptation.”

This is a very powerfully seductive embedded command, best used for when you already have someone “on the hook” and you want to reel them in. Also look at the words before the embedded command and how well it sets it up, no-one would ever know you are really using a seductive techniques on them because of how covert it is. Besides the embedded command the example above also sells the fact that you’re someone who cares about their appearance yet isn’t too obsessed with it. If you’ve already created a good rapport with a person they may even jump in at this point and tell you that you look great or that you don’t need to lose weight at all. If you get that response then you are onto a real winner.

An embedded command consists of a few things. First you need a lead into the embedded command, this is known as a weasel phrase. In the example above the weasel phrase is “…, you know, sometimes…”. The weasel phrase leads straight into the embedded command. You should also induce the thought of a state, process or experience within your command. In our example I used the word “temptation”. Everyone has experience temptation at some stage of their life. Lastly it is important to regulate your tone of voice when delivering the embedded command. An embedded command should end with a downward inflection in your voice, just like any other command. You can practice this by saying out loud “hold it there”, then differ this by saying “can you hold it there?”. You should be able to hear the difference in your voice between when you give a command and when you ask a question.

I have given you one example of a seductive embedded command but I’m sure that you’d love to know a few more. I have included a list of embedded commands you can use for seduction below.

“If you want me to, I can help you with that.”

“When that happened did you feel good?”

“Could you imagine us together in that situation?”

“When you take a risk it can be really exhilarating.”

“I don’t know if you like me, find that…”

“It was incredible that they could feel excited about me so quickly.”

There’s half a dozen seductive embedded commands you can use. Embedded commands are situation, don’t try a fit one in where it doesn’t belong. Wait until the time is right. The more you think about and practice using embedded commands for seductive purposes the more natural it becomes. Eventually you will be able to create and covertly add embedded commands into your conversation without even having to consciously think about it.

Please note that the potential with using embedded commands for seduction is incredible and is a power that should be used responsibly.

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When you intend to seduce either a woman or man it pays to have a plan and one of the very best seduction techniques you could ever learn are embedded commands. The idea behind embedded commands came from Milton Erickson and was later fine tuned by John Grinder and Richard Bandler, the co-founders of NLP. There are many uses for embedded commands but in this article I will concentrate on how they can be used to seduce anyone you desire.

Embedded commands work by planting a thought or idea into the mind of the person you are trying to seduce. So, for example, if I was talking to an attractive woman that I had met via strange circumstances I might  say to her “Isn’t it funny we should be together like this?”. It’s a perfectly natural piece of conversation but within the question you will notice the command “we should be together”. This places the idea in the woman’s mind that it would be a good idea for us to get together.

At this juncture I would like to mention the importance of the tone of your voice while delivering embedded commands. They are called commands for a reason, they should be spoken in the manner of a command. That doesn’t mean you need to seem stern and authorities though (although it is a good idea to appear in control of the situation if you are a man looking to seduce a woman). Commands should be delivered with a downward inflection. This is in contrast to questions which end with an upward inflection. If you’re not sure what I mean by this say “go to the shop” out-loud to yourself and listen to the commanding tone of your voice.

There are a couple of different formulas that have been designed to help with the creation of embedded commands but I find these to be restrictive and often too obvious or difficult to naturally slip into a conversation. I have come up with a number of embedded commands for the purposes of seduction and I invite you to borrow them as well as create your own.

“I could sense/feel the excitement…”
“It’s just like me to…”
“Sometimes you have to take a chance…”
“You can find the perfect man/woman (touch or stroke your chin)  for you if you look hard enough.”
“Isn’t it great when you can feel a connection growing?”
“Did it feel good?”
“Could you imagine us in the future?” This one works great after a discussion about life goals.

The embedded commands above can be used on a man or woman.

Before you start trying to seduce people with embedded commands it is important to spend time practicing so that your technique is flawless. If you go out and attempt to use embedded commands without practice your speech will sound awkward and disjointed and you will enjoy no success.

The best way to practice and master the use of embedded commands for seduction is first by creating a number of commands that flow well with your regular speech patterns. Commands don’t have to be complicated so this part should be easy. Once you have an arsenal of embedded commands, practice speaking them into a dictaphone (many cell phones now have this capability).

Keep practicing and playing your recordings back to yourself until your embedded commands flow smoothly to the point where you believe no-one would ever suspect that you are using this powerful seduction technique.

When you are ready you can begin using these commands while talking to a potential partner. Pay close attention to how they react whilst you are speaking to them. Some commands will work better than others, try to gauge which ones have the desired effect and which ones don’t. This way you can edit your embedded commands for the future, keep the good ones and ditch bad ones.

If you stumble the first few times in a real social situation don’t worry. It is perfectly natural as you are now in a new and stimulating environment. You will soon find yourself settling into a rhythm where embedded commands become second nature to you.

Do not forget that the dance of seduction is a two way conversation not a monologue so make sure to listen just as much as you talk.

Please be responsible with this technique.

Doug Slater.

Hello and welcome to the inaugural post here at NLP Hypnosis Secrets. I thought that before I began dispensing potentially life change information I should first explain the purpose and goals of this blog.

As you may no doubt have guessed from the title of this blog I will be discussing the many secrets and techniques contained within both NLP and hypnosis. This will include articles on NLP, hypnosis, covert hypnosis, self hypnosis, hypnotic inductions and seduction techniques.

The information contained within NLP Hypnosis Secrets will be incredibly powerful. Regular readers will soon learn how to hack not only their own mind but other peoples too. Imagine what this will mean for your life. You can become a confident go getter with the ability to persuade people to do almost anything you want them to.

This doesn’t come without work though. The techniques I will teach you require great thought and practice to be mastered. Nevertheless if you have the dedication you will receive great rewards.

Doug Slater.