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A Guide to Trance Land – Review
This slim volume is a clear-cut guide to the hypnotically permissive manner of encouraging clients to uncover their own solutions.
O’Hanlon distinguishes this solution-oriented hypnotherapy from what he calls the traditional approach with its emphasis on treating the “causes” of problems and the outside-in focus of the hypnotherapist telling the client what to do to overcome her pathology.
“Ericksonian or solution-oriented hypnosis holds no such assumption of pathology, problem, damage, or deficit. Instead, we are oriented to people’s abilities and resources. Therefore, we use the hypnotic process to discover and connect to [to the person's inner] resources.”
This “permissive” approach is in direct contrast to the old way of conducting a session of hypnotherapy. Instead of speaking of “shoulds” and “musts” the hypnotist speaks of “perhaps” and “maybes”. The idea is both to meet the client where he or she is and to allow solutions to their problems to arise from within them.
Despite the author’s demarcation of his approach as being radically different to traditional hypnotherapy in practice surely most of us incorporate something of both methods?
Just the other day, for instance, when a Christian client spoke of herself as being immature, I said perhaps that’s true but she is moving forward and as St Paul said. “When I was a child…” and continued with the Biblical quote that was meaningful and relevant to her. Meeting the client where she is now.
O’Hanlon rightly warns (in regard to using the client’s vocabulary) “it is important to be careful here and not come across as mocking or disrespectful…”
I certainly don’t want to be “mocking or disrespectful” about this Guide but here are four items that raised my eyebrows:
1. I find the cover, with its big dog looking down at a cat, puzzling for a book about human hypnosis.
2. On almost every page there is a rubber-stamp type black and white image of an animal or bird. Contrary to the author’s assertion that such designs make the book easier to read and memorable I find these images distracting. At first glance, the book appears to be a book about pets or for children. It is neither.
3. Some of the suggested “therapeutic” behaviors are downright comical. For example, what would you think about a hypnotherapist who bounces around, speaking into your left ear while emphasizing “you can make those changes you really want to make.”
4. What have become known as NLP [Neuro-Linguistic Programming] techniques are, in my opinion, manipulative and dishonest. This one, from page 31, is both. And funny:
“The hypnotist sometimes mirrors the person’s posture or movements as a way of joining and connecting. For example, when a person crosses and uncrosses his legs, the hypnotist also crosses and uncrosses her legs. Another way to match body behavior is to vary some part of your behavior when the person changes his body behavior. That is, every time he blinks, you nod.”
Despite such hilarious portions of the book, the main thrust provides invaluable instruction for hypnotherapists – particularly those hitherto inclined to bark orders at their clients.
To this end, Bill O’Hanlon provides many specific examples of what to say and how to say it. Much of this is derived from the genius of the late Milton Erickson whose (at that time) unorthodox methods of hypnotherapy have become dogma for some devotees.
Unfortunately, you can’t package genius. How Erickson dealt with people arose from his unique talents. We can be inspired by him, we can imitate his respectful approach but we stifle the very essence of his permissive attitude when we seek to encapsulate his methods into rigid rules.
Nevertheless, the synthesis of the Ericksonian approach that O’Hanlon details at the end of the book is masterful.
Hypnotherapists new to the field and those previously stuck in the “traditional” mode will find these instructions enlightening. Especially the chapter, “Bad Trance/ Good Trance” with its table of “Symptomatic Trance vs. Healing Trance.”
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How To Learn Hypnotism
Hypnotism or more commonly known as hypnosis, is a mental state or set of attitudes usually caused by a procedure known as a hypnotic induction, which is composed of a series of preceding instructions and suggestions. Hypnotic suggestions may be delivered by a hypnotist to a person or a subject (experiment), or may be self suggested (auto suggestion). In this article I’m going to share with you one of the methods used by hypnotists so that you can get to know how to learn hypnotism.
5 Steps Guide: How To Learn Hypnotism
1. Use a smooth talking voice. This won’t be your regular speaking voice but rather a tone you would use with a sleepy and tired child. The more relaxing and softer your voice, the faster you can hypnotize someone.
2. Have your subject take a deep breath, and slowly let it out. While she expels air, make her close her eyes. Then starting with the top of her body, talk to her silently so that you can bring her into a relaxed stage. For example, you can say, “Feel your shoulders. Relax your shoulders and feel them become heavier and heavier. They are loose. There is no tension in your shoulders.”
3. Praise your subject in a comfortable voice at every step as this is the most important part. Hypnotism can be pretty scary for people who don’t know what to expect next. Let your subject know everything is just fine and she’s doing everything right and correct as it will help her to stay relaxed.
4. Continue with the first three steps until you know she is hypnotized. You might have to make her relax her body parts several times as most people may take about 10 minutes to enter a hypnotic state. Signs of hypnosis are: loose, droopy muscles; slightly twitching arms or legs; changes in breathing; or eyelids that flutter.
5. Make suggestions when she is hypnotized (hypnotic suggestions). The suggestions can be serious or humorous. In this stage, please be ethical to ask something from her or someone as that person will be in a “hypnotic trance” and easier to influence. When you are ready to release her from the hypnotic state, simply say, “When I count to three, you will open your eyes and feel refreshed and active. One, two, three.”
Here’s more quick tips:
• Hypnotic suggestions are the most important part in the process of getting to know how to learn hypnotism.
• Make sure your subjects are relaxed and focused while you’re hypnotizing her or him.
• Don’t be harsh or pressure your subjects to do something while he or she is in a hypnotic trance.
• Hypnotism is also related with Hypnosis Mind Control, another powerful psychological method.
How Hypnotherapy Can Heal You
For many people, the word hypnosis conjures images that have more to do with magic than medicine.
But the truth is that hypnotherapy is a scientifically-acknowledged discipline that can be used by itself or in combination with other types of therapies to help patients achieve their goals, says Reema Shah, Mumbai-based psychologist and hypnotherapist. Approved by the American and British Medical Associations, hypnosis is “scientifically researched and can even be seen on a brain scan,” claims Dr Dayal Mirchandani, a Mumbai-based psychiatrist.
Using the subconscious
According to Shah, hypnotherapy is very effective with anxiety disorders, phobias and traumas. Addictions like smoking and drinking and even kleptomania can also be cured effectively through hypnotherapy, though results may vary from person to person. Dr Nalwa, who trained in the UK and has had patients ranging in ages from six to 60, says that generally people come for various phobias as well as marital and work-related problems. She encourages people to try hypnotherapy only if they have an open mind about it and says that often, people approach hypnotherapy as a last resort due to lack of awareness.
Continued…http://www.hindustantimes.com/How-hypnotherapy-can-heal-you/Article1-576600.aspx
About Susceptibility To Hypnosis
Susceptibility to hypnosis is the capacity of going into a hypnotic trance. Most hypnotists believe that the vast majority of the population can be hypnotized rather easily. It depends mainly on the emotional state of hypnosis subject and few other factors. Often the same person who enters into a deep trance very quickly have problems with getting hypnotized just few days later. It also works in opposite way. A person who has difficulty with getting relaxed lose them completely after their first hypnotic trance.
It should be noted that people who learn how to consciously enter into hypnotic trance enters it with less effort each time they use their hypnosis technique. Of course this is not a rule. One of the hypnotherapists states that about 5% of population cannot be hypnotized at all and just 25% can get in the deepest trance. According to him all the rest reaches different intermediate states of hypnosis. Other specialists and hypnotherapists achieves much better results which may be the result of a better approach to hypnotized person. For example Bernheim – claims that at the hospital 80% of the patients attained the state of deep hypnosis, while from the people hypnotized privately only 20%.
Susceptibility to hypnosis is not dependent on gender, education and intelligence. By contrast, it depends on:
- Age – from 5 to 17 years, somewhat higher than in other age groups
- The relationship between the hypnotist and hypnosis subjects (prejudices and animosities creates bad prognosis)
- Subject’s ideas on idea of hypnosis and value of the hypnotist.
It is worth noting that those who are somnambulists (sleeping deep, having difficulty distinguishing waking from sleep, walking in sleep) are very susceptible to hypnosis and easily fall in deep trance.
Required depth of trance.
Required depth of trance should be understood as the plan to implement suggestions structured according to the level of difficulty. This means that the command that are more difficult for hypnotized ought to be passed in the greater depth a trance. In addition, hypnotherapists use selected suggestions to determine the depth of trance. These are appropriately selected suggestions that are not too difficult to implement.
Two commonly used scales for the depth of trance.
- Descriptive Scale.
According to Forel hypnosis can be divided into three main stages:
- Light (i.e. somnolence sleepiness – is characterized by fatigue, and relaxation).
- Average (light sleep) – hypnotized subject can not open your eyes, but does not lose memory.
- Deep-(somnambulism, or deep sleep) – subject can open your eyes in a trance, speak and walk.
There are few easy ways to check how deep you can hypnotize yourself. See three basic hypnosis tests in hypnosis how to post which is continuation of this article.
Who Can Be Hypnotised?
If you want to learn hypnosis undoubtedly one of the most important points you need to understand fully is, how to recognise when a person is hypnotised. It’s easy to learn hypnosis, anyone can learn to become a good hypnotist. However, without a true understanding of the ’signs of hypnosis’ you will never become a successful hypnotist. Take time to learn hypnosis correctly and you will be amazed at what you can achieve.
What happens with many people who learn hypnosis is they never learn the signs of hypnosis, so their success as a hypnotist is in doubt every time they try to hypnotise a subject. After a while many of these people form the opinion hypnosis is unreliable so they slowly give up using it. Hypnosis is reliable, providing you learn hypnosis correctly. It is most unfortunate that many, many, hypnosis teachers/courses don’t understand hypnosis fully either, and therefore turn out poorly trained and informed hypnotists.
You can learn hypnosis and learn to hypnotise anybody providing the following 3 following basic requirements can be met…
1. There must be a channel of communication between the subject and the hypnotist. Obviously this is normally speech. However, a deaf person can still be communicated with so they are not excluded from being hypnotized. As a point of interest, it’s not necessary to have a person close their eyes to enter hypnosis so sign-language can be used to hypnotise a deaf person. Learn hypnosis in depth and you will learn that there is no way in which you cannot hypnotise a person.
2. The ability to follow instructions. The subject must be able to follow the simple instructions presented by the hypnotist.
3. Consent. Hypnosis is a consent state. Therefore a person can only be hypnotised if they give their consent.
Providing these 3 requirements are met a person can be hypnotised. Age, gender, or social skills make no difference. As you learn hypnosis you will quickly discover some people are more apt to accept suggestions quicker than others, and are therefore able to obtain a deep state of hypnosis in less time than others.
Hypnosis occurs when a subject’s critical factor is by passed and a selective thought is accepted by their mind. The critical factor of the mind is an aspect that develops during our forming years. Therefore children are extremely easy to hypnotise. In fact it’s likely that virtually every child has been hypnotised many times by the age of 5 years, and mostly by their mother.
If you think this sounds a little suspect ask yourself this question. “As a child did you ever hurt a finger and ask your mother to kiss it better, and when she kissed it the discomfort just disappeared?” This was a bypass of your critical factor, and by implication, the implanting of a selective thought. This would more correctly be refereed to as waking hypnosis. However, most hypnotists would not even recognise that the finger kiss is actually hypnosis. Learn hypnosis in depth and you will understand that much of our behaviour as an adult is due being hypnotised as a child.
NOTE: Since first writing this short article, many people have asked me if it’s possible to hypnotise a drunk person. The answer is simple, yes, if they can meet the 3 conditions above. BUT, they will still be drunk! Furthermore, you can’t sober them up any quicker by using hypnosis.
Steven Luzern.
