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Be More Dominant With Hypnosis
THE BEGINNING, REVELATION
Do you feel like life is passing you by and you are a spectator and not a participator? Are you sitting at the bus stop and the bus just keeps on going by and not stopping. You whistle, jump up and down, wave your arms and you still can’t get the recognition. You have been over looked for promotions time in and time again. Dude, here is a thought, you are not in control! You are being controlled. You are not standing out, you are standing down. Yes, you heard me right. Now, ask yourself what am I gonna do about it? Do some self evaluation. What do you want out of life? Why do you not have it? How are you going to get it? Wouldn’t it be wonderful to find a solution to all the issues that affect your well being? Well, Don’t quit now! Don’t be close minded before you even get started. Today is the day to begin your life changing journey. Now let’s break the mold and start changing your direction of travel. No one can do it for you, You Have To Do It. Are you ready? OK, that is what I like to hear. Let us start by learning a little about why we are the way we are.
ARE WE SECRETLY BEING HYPNOTIZED?
There are people,and I used to be one, that walk thru life playing the lottery with their future. It is like there is an anointed few that get all the breaks and win life’s grand prize every day. It could be they are just living and thinking out of the box. They don’t think or bend to every blast of hot wind that comes along. There is a reason why you are where you are today. It is because you just don’t care,you are flat out lazy or you are believing the flood of suggestive social economic categorizing that envelopes you every day. Let us take a small peek at what I am saying. As children we are programed, brainwashed, hypnotized, if you will, to be a product of our environment. For example, if we were born poor, we are told by statisticians that, according to statistics we will always be poor because history proves it and that makes it a fact.
If you are employed in the common labor market you are told that you will never make management no matter how hard you work. It is just not within your grasp. If you are mid management you will never make VP because you don’t have the education or you don’t have the abilities to get you there. Television constantly hits you with commercial ads and programs that devalue who you are, what you own, what you desire and what you believe. Just think about it, if you drive automobile A and not automobile B, which is supposedly the safest, then you are not a responsible parent. You don’t care about your family safety because you don’t drive B. Not taking in to consideration of being able to afford an over priced product. If you use credit card A instead of credit card B then you are not mentally fit to make sound financial decisions on your own. Whats in your pocket? If you wear brand B and not brand A then you are not being a responsible consumer and not being in style. Not taking in the poor quality of the product A. That is only a few examples of how we are unknowingly being mentally dominated, suggestively hypnotized, into believing that we are not capable of making sound decisions for ourselves. We are puppets that can be psychologically bombarded and bullied into believing what ever we are told. There is some truth to that statement, just look at the morality and the buying trends of the American public. Maybe we need to be taking some mental notes here. The point here is start being the dominator not the dominated. This is targeted psychological mental warfare with your life style at stake. Start thinking out of the box. You be the one that is in control by the power of persuasion and not the one getting the emotional and mental beating everyday.
HYPNOSIS FACT OR FICTION?
Have you ever just gone to the mall, set on the benches and watched people? Now that is what I call entertainment. You have to ask yourself why people do what they do? What makes them tick? People at the mall look like ants at a picnic with a food mission on their mind. They follow the same paths one behind the other like worker ants. What makes millions of people buy one manufacturers brand and only a few buy an others brand? Is it mental manipulation or subliminal hypnosis that we are constantly exposed to? It has been said that repetition is the mother of all learning. So if you are told over and over again that you are not capable of being anything more than a programed zombie, after a while you begin to believe it. This is the beginning of mind manipulation, hypnosis if you will. Your average eighteen year old watches approximately 180 hrs of television and listens to 235 hrs of music a month.You tell me where we are getting our mentoring from. You can take that as a positive or a negative.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But if you could take just a small portion of that power of persuasive conversational hypnosis and focus it in a positive way to better yourself, your family, your financial life, would you be willing to do it? People use hypnosis everyday to better themselves. They get hypnotized to quit smoking, to loose weight, to regain their memory about their past, to help overcome a mental meltdown caused from some type of psychological trauma. There are programs of hypnotic suggestion for self improvement to give a person their self confidence back. Victims of crime have been put under hypnosis to break through the mental barriers that keep them from remembering what happened or even what their attacker looked like. So if you ask me if Hypnosis is fact or fiction. I would have to say there is enough proof in this world to say, yes hypnosis is fact.
CAN HYPNOSIS HELP ME?
I personally don’t know you, there maybe something in your life that you need hypnotic therapy for. I am not telling you to go out and get therapy. The point that I want to make is that it is time that you take control of your own destiny instead of allowing every Tom, Dick or Harry to control it for you. If you are happy being an ordinary Joe than that is fine and you don’t need to read any farther. I apologize for wasting you time. But if you are like I was, feeling trapped with no way out, then you need to read on. It is time for a breakthrough, don’t you agree? If so, read the following scenarios and see if you have personally witnessed or have been involved in the following. The co-workers that you trained were all promoted and you were passed by. You try to express your ideas at your job and no one seems to listen. You just can’t seem to get any ones respect. You watch other people get what they want while you are laboring just to pay bills. Seems like everyone in line at the bank were walking out with loans that they had applied for and you get denied. Every one else seems to get their dream girl or guy and you can’t even get a date. Does any of this sound familiar? You can probably think of more things that are just as important to you than what is listed. I just want you to stop for a moment and take inventory. You need to approach this issue as this is all out psychological warfare to gain control of your destiny and you will not settle for anything less than complete and total victory. If there was a program designed to educate you in resolving the issues that you face in your everyday life? Would you be willing to give yourself a chance to gain your freedom? Well guess what,,t there is. Are you willing to step up to the plate and change your life forever? Well here is your chance don’t let this opportunity pass you by.
MIND CONTROL AND THE POWER OF PERSUASION
All right then, lets get down to brass tacks. There is a self help program that I was researching, this is what I do, I review help topics, and it totally changed the way I pictured may future. You don’t have to be a psychology guru or have an IQ that is off the charts to use the simple steps of this teaching guide. If you will apply yourself it is within your reach right now to create your own destiny. How awesome would it be to be able to influence and change other peoples thoughts? Well, it is not that complicated, in fact it is easier than you think. All the things in life that you ever wanted is yours for the taking. Learn the hidden secrets that the powers to be don’t want you to know. You will be able to influence those that are standing in your way. Gain that dream of fortune and fame. Earn the respect of your colleagues and associates that didn’t even give you the time of day before. And if you are single of course, be able to woo and court that special someone that used to be an unattainable fantasy. You don’t have to be born with super powers to influence people’s thoughts. It is well within your grasp to dramatically and positively alter the course of your life by learning hypnosis through seemingly casual conversation.
Conversational Hypnosis will show you how to: Trigger manipulations in the brain through speech, Convey your desires in any language and will make others want to help you realize your life goals. You have never been closer in your life than right now to access and keep the secrets to mind control through Conversational Hypnosis. Here is the challenge I will put before you. Do you have the courage to go out and get what you want? Are you willing to step out of the cookie cutter mold that someone else designed for you? Or are you going to duck your head, put your hands back in your pockets, turn around and walk away from total freedom and finally happiness? Review the system for yourself, it is not for everyone. Not everyone wants to change their life. I just want to see you succeed, check it out for yourself, what do you have to loose? The ball is in your court my friend. What you do with it is up to you.
Author Bio
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Jack is an avid researcher in self help programs and articles. His passion is to uncover the secretes behind the successful and share them with those who are not as fortunate. The fact of the matter is that the majority of people on this planet have to struggle thru each day trying to make ends meet. The difference between those that have it all and those that don’t is either those that have it were born with a silver spoon in their mouth, or they are living off of 2nd or 3rd generation money or they have found the secretes to becoming a success. These fundamentals for success are for anyone to use if you can find them. But keep in mind that success comes from applying ones self. If Jack can find some way of making someones elses life a little better or a little easier he feels it will be worth all the hard work he has invested. So if someway or somehow you are helped in anyway Then great, that is so awesome, now go and share it with someone else and don’t expect anything in return. Enjoy life it is too short to waste. JLC
Is Hypnosis Here To Stay?
Is hypnosis a fad or has it become the trend? Hypnosis has reached a new level of respect and is now used everywhere in the world. People find it easier and safer than most conventional methods to reach their goals and solve their problems. Simply learning to use your altered state of consciousness can make big changes fast in your life.
Hypnosis used as hypnotherapy is now widely accepted everywhere, which is now commonly used as a therapy to solve people’s problems. People find it easier, safer and less expensive than the past conventional methods of pills, surgeries, diets and long term therapy which is all very expensive. Hypnosis is simply an altered state of consciousness using your mind power to change habits, heal, reach goals and so much more.
Hypnosis, properly used, is accepted by nearly every religion in the world except some Christian Scientists and those individuals that simply don’t understand hypnosis. Those individuals relate to the old late night horror shows of one being hypnotized, looking like a deer staring into the headlights as some kind of mind control. There is no mind control and you are always in control and will never do anything against your beliefs, morals or desires. And when I mean accepted, I mean the Pope himself, released a statement of his approval of the proper use of hypnosis, in the 1950’s and God used it on Adam to remove his rib so he wouldn’t feel any pain, to make woman. Nearly all health organizations use hypnotherapy in their daily practice, including hospitals everywhere, the Mayo Clinic and most doctors, chiropractors, dentists, etc. as well as ministers and law enforcement.
While hypnosis is more popular today than ever before and has reached a whole new respect in just the last decade, is still highly misunderstood by many. Some of you are already thinking that they don’t remember anything being said in the Bible about God hypnotizing Adam. You’re right, it doesn’t use that word hypnosis because the word hypnosis is a Greek word that was coined by a Scottish surgeon, Dr. James Braid, from Manchester, England, in 1841, meaning sleep. However, when he realized it was not sleep at all, he tried to change the word to monoideism and it never caught on. People loved the word hypnosis too much. For those that truly understand and recognize hypnosis, recognizes it throughout the Bible. Hypnosis is mentioned more than a thousand times throughout the Bible according to the organization of ministers that are certified hypnotherapists.
I’ve been a certified hypnotherapist for more than 17 years and worked with people from all walks of life and I still hear the same comments and same questions from everyone. The most common question is, does it really work? It does and still amazes me to this very day. It works even if you don’t believe it will work. For those that don’t believe it will work and don’t really try or is willing to listen to their cd for reinforcement at all, will normally fail at it. These are the most negative people with a negative attitude about everything in their life. Does it really work? Like magic! If I didn’t think so, I would not have walked across a long bed of red hot coals barefooted or the big bed of smashed broken glass barefooted. No, I did not even have a red mark on either foot. I also underwent surgery to repair a hianial hernia(not sure how to spell it but it was a large tear just above the belly button) using only hypnosis, staying awake and talking to staff through the procedure. Yes, it does work and very well. It is easy and so simple. Most think it could not work if it is as easy as I say, but it is. The most common comments I get in nearly every group session to this day is, are we going to bark like a dog or cluck like a chicken? I respond with, do you want to bark like a dog or cluck like a chicken? So far, no one has.
People are hypnotized everyday without realizing it. If you don’t want to be hypnotized and are really too afraid of it for whatever your reason may be, then don’t watch TV, meditate or pray for more than a few seconds, or sit in any meetings, getting too relaxed and listening to what the speaker has to say, like church, or take any time in falling asleep or waking up or relaxing while you drive down that long stretch of highway and don’t believe anything anyone tells you or ever get very relaxed. You need to stay wide awake until you fall asleep fast and as soon as you wake up, jump out of bed and get that physical mind to start thinking about your day. This list should keep you from being hypnotized on a daily basis. I hope you realize that if you should follow this advice to keep from being hypnotized, your quality of life will depreciate drastically. Except for the watching TV, I don’t encourage anyone to watch TV. TV is very negative and the media makes people believe the world is a mess and everything is just terrible and too many people believe it, talk it and live it. If you want to change your life and make improvements, cut out the negativity out of your life, especially the news. Why were there more millionaires made during the Great Depression than any other time? They refused to subject themselves to the negativity around them and focused on opportunities, the positive. Your world, your life you live is but a reflection of your inner world. It all starts within, your mind. You can believe the world is awful and it will be or you can believe it is a wonderful place of opportunity, love and adventure and it will be. Your life is what you make it. It all starts within your own mind. No matter what you think you can or can’t do, if you think you can or if you think you can’t, you’re right!
People are becoming more aware of their own spirituality and the power of their mind within to use it more wisely. With so many books and movies available now, on how much control we have over our own health, lives, finances, destiny, etc., with the proper use of our own mind, we can change anything. We are all constantly living in a state of self-hypnosis. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis, whether guided by another or yourself. The Universal Law of Attraction works with you all the time, without fail. Hypnosis as hypnotherapy is evidently now a trend.
About The Author
C.J.Savage, Certified Hypnotherapist for 17+ yrs, offering her expertise to hypnotize people, transforming their physical, mental and emotional health to living life more abundantly. She has worked with corp. such as ADM and Cargill to stop smoking & lose weight with exceptional success. C.J. is also an expert author on hypnosis & the power of the mind. Get Free audio hypnosis download “Freedom From Stress” at http://www.TheHypnosisQueen.com
Attractive Body Language
It’s been said that people pay more attention to nonverbal communication than the verbal kind. If this is indeed true then, without doubt, taking the time to master your own body language is time well spent.
This is particularly true of attracting women with your body language. Women typically respond well to men they deem to appear strong, assertive, confident and in control. So how do you make yourself appear that way? Well here are a few pointers on body language that will make you appear more attractive to any woman.
1. Slow down. A slow, steady pace of verbal and nonverbal communication is closely associated with confidence in mating psychology. Think about whenever you see someone who’s talking at a hundred miles per hour and tapping their foot and twitching. They look nervous and edgy. Slow down your speech and movements and you will immediately look confident and in control.
2. Hand gestures. Think about all the best orators in history and how they used hand gestures to engage people when they talked. Practice using hand gestures while you talk to people, but as I said below, make sure your movements are slow and confident.
3. Create your own space. Whenever you’re in a room, especially if there’s quite a number of people there, create your own space where you have a couple of feet all around you where no-one else is standing. This shows that you are confident enough to mark your territory.
4. Lean back. Rather than leaning in when you talk to a woman you should actually lean back a little. This makes them lean in to listen to you and puts you in control of the situation.
5. Open up. Stand with your legs slightly apart and your arms at your sides (not crossed) so you appear more relaxed and open. You should also directly face the person you are talking to.
6. Control your posture. Imagine that you’re the President of America. Are you going to be walking around with your head held high, shoulders back, chest out and back straight? Of course you are, you’d be the most powerful man in the world! Just because you’re not the President doesn’t mean you can’t act like you’re not. Women respect power.
7. Remain controlled. Never act as if you’re excited to talk to someone. That doesn’t mean not to act friendly but if you let your emotions take control then women will lose respect for you and think you’re needy.
I hope these tips will help you to improve your body language and attract more women.
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Using Hypnotic Sales Techniques on a Prospect
Anytime you are performing sales techniques which can affect a prospect’s mind you should use extreme caution. Hypnosis and mind control are powerful tools that can have far reaching effects on a person’s consciousness and unconsciousness.
Remember that when you place suggestions or commands into a prospect’s mind under hypnosis as part of your sales techniques you’re speaking directly to their unconscious mind.
While a hypnotized prospect will not do anything they would not be willing to do under any other circumstance, their judgment is impaired and they may take actions based on the ideas you give them. This can have negative consequences if your sales techniques are not appropriate.
Your memory is also part of your unconscious mind. This means it can be easy to create false memories in a prospect. It is strongly recommended you avoid giving people false memories under any circumstances.
Even well intentioned attempts within your sales techniques to give the hypnotized prospect ‘positive memories’ could backfire. It is recommended that you not attempt to uncover buried memories through hypnosis except with the guidance of a professional.
Sometimes forgotten memories may be repressed ones, and without the aid of a professional these repressed memories could be overwhelming.
Any use of mind control in your sales techniques must be responsible. Encouraging a person to take actions that could hurt themselves or others is extremely irresponsible and of course is not what we want to achieve through our sales techniques.
While using mind control to leave a good impression on your prospect and help close a sale is reasonable, persuading a person to steal is certainly not. Again, it is true that a person will generally not commit actions that violate their moral character – however you have no way of knowing what actions they are willing to take with the proper pushing.
There are certain techniques that can be used to change a person’s core values and beliefs. Charles Manson used these techniques to get his followers to kill for him.
Remember that with mind control sales techniques you are not brainwashing the prospect to do your bidding, but instead are making the subject more agreeable to your suggestions.
Using hypnotic suggestion on a mentally ill person is incredibly dangerous, both for them and for you. Such a person may benefit from hypnotherapy by a professional. Your sales technique should bear this in mind as how will you know if your prospect is mentally ill?
If a friend or prospect asks you to help them with a problem through hypnosis always be sure you fully understand their mental background before you attempt any hypnotic suggestion.
About the Author
Marc Savage is the owner of http://www.GetHypnoticSellingSystem.com
NLP Pacing and Leading Techniques
NLP pacing and leading is a strategy often used to take control of situations. It’s quite revolutionary actually. When used correctly, you’ll be able to diffuse arguments, win over people and generally avoid trouble.
Read on to learn more…
NLP Pacing and Leading Technique # 1: Mirroring To Build Rapport
This is very simple and easy. All you have to do is mirror a person subtly whether through gestures or speech patterns.
Once you have established some sort of rapport with the person, then that is the time when you can take control of the situation and turn it around as you see fit. You’ll see how quickly that other person will follow your lead.
For example, if the person you’re talking to likes to start a conversation by putting both hands on the table, you might want to copy that gesture as well (but do it very subtly). If that person speaks in soft tones, soften your voice as well!
NLP Pacing and Leading Technique # 2: Stating Facts And Then Taking Over
This involves you stating something true about the person you’re talking to – or the situation you’re dealing with – and getting said person to agree with you before swooping in to take control.
For example, if you want to convince somebody to donate to charity, tell that person something factual like, “You’re here in this restaurant, listening to me talk about charity…” and then implanting new thoughts into that person by adding, “and perhaps you’re wondering why you should donate to this cause…” Insert what you will after that phrase and I’m sure you can take it from here.
Everyday Usage Of NLP Pacing And Leading
See how easy these techniques are? You can virtually use them on anyone and for any situation! For everyday practice, why don’t you test them out on someone whose behavior you want to change?
For example, if your brother has a tendency to talk too quickly, you can easily use the first technique to control his speech speed. When he talks to you, answer him back in the same speed. Do this for three times before eventually slowing your speech down. In turn, your brother will follow your lead!
NLP pacing and leading can be very easily enacted. Anyone can do it! Now that you know how to deal with situations accordingly, I trust that you’ll use this knowledge positively. Use it to improve your persuasion skills and help others as well!
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